Kuchokera pazomwe ndakumana nazo ndikutsimikizira. kuti ambuye amafuta amakhala omasuka komanso odekha kwambiri kuposa owonda, ndi mawonekedwe awo obiriwira amamvetsetsa kuti mwamuna amafunikira kuyesetsa kuti awakhutitse, kotero amayesa kusangalatsa mwamunayo pakugonana muzonse.
Momwemonso, okwatirana omwe ali m'chikondi amagonana mwachikondi ndipo simungawachotsere, mumatha kumva chikondi kuchokera kutali ndipo ngakhale kanema amawonetsa bwino, ngakhale munjira yonyansa. Kujambula ndikwabwino kwambiri, anyamata amasewera bwino, zikuwonekeratu kuti amayesetsa momwe angathere, kukuwa, kubuula, zonse ndi zawo, ndimakonda momwe chilichonse chimaganiziridwa pano, ndikuwonera mosangalala.